The Happy Nappy Bride

About weddings. About relationships. About the first year of being married.

pearly whites January 11, 2010

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Those items above are an incredibly large part of my life.  I’m sure you’re thinking, “Dawn, I believe that we all brush our teeth.”  But before The Mister asked me to marry him, I started down the Invisalign path to fix my teeth because they were, um, well…what’s the technical term?  Jacked up…yes, my teeth were jacked up.

It’s just a wonderful thing that I’d gotten started on this journey (and it has been a journey) before the Big Ask, because I wouldn’t want folks to think that I was doing this just for the wedding.  I mean, don’t get me wrong, I’m very happy that I’ll be finished with my treatment (and have a superfly smile) by then.  But for whatever reason, I don’t want people to think I’m one of “those ladies” who change everything about myself for the wedding.

Does anyone else have a thing like that?  I’ve got a girlfriend who lost a bunch of weight, but started losing before her now husband asked her to marry him.  She also expressed her pleasure at people not thinking that she’d lost just for him or for the wedding.

Is it because we (us ladies) still want to be independent?  Or is it because we’ve all had friends who either kicked us to the curb when they got a man or became completely different for a man?  Maybe it makes me feel better to be like, I was gonna do that anyway, so there. This whole wedding and marriage thing brings about a bit of an internal struggle…to become a Mrs. without losing the essence of who I am.

 

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