So I’ve never been one to have tons and tons of friends. I’ve got folks who’ve been in my life for years, but mostly from times when I was forced to be around strangers and interact…like college and right afterwards when I was too poor to live by myself. Those strangers I was obligated to be around because they were my roommates are now some of my best friends, so you would think making that connection would make me step outside of my comfort zone more often in order to meet people. But it doesn’t.
Why? Because I’m an introvert. I enjoy being by myself. All of the things that I would consider “fun” can be done all by myself: reading, writing, blogging, farting around on the internet, running, lifting weights, etc. I was so excited to receive my Psychology Today in the mail yesterday (what? you don’t subscribe?) and the main article is about introverts! Yippee!! Finally some validation that I’m not a crazy person because I’m internally rather than externally motivated…which, in fact, is what introvert and extrovert means. I haven’t read the article yet, but I’m sure you’ll be hearing about it when I do.
I’ve thought about joining a book club, but my work hours are crazy…plus there are all of those strangers there. I’ve thought about asking someone to workout with me, but I’m pretty particular about how and when I exercise…a potential OCD issue there. I’m in a sorority, but they meet on Saturdays and I work every weekend from August through May…and they don’t meet in the summers. *sigh*
I know that I need to get motivated and try to meet some ladies, but whenever I have that thought it’s always followed by a heavy sigh, lol! It just sounds like so much work. I did meet a lady at work who sounded pretty desperate for human interaction and I immediately thought, “score, surely she’ll be my friend!” It’s still up in the air, but we had her over to the house about a month ago and she still hasn’t called me back. I just don’t think she was that into me.
What advice do you have for me to get some girlfriends?